Off the beaten path
Sometimes families have something else in mind for their reunion: they want to stay in different places, move around, visit different sites like Holly Burchs family. Burch of Rome, Georgia, her parents, along with her sister and brother and their spouses and kids, spent their family reunion exploring Yellowstone and Grand Tetons National Parks.
"I imagine we were a challenge," Burch says. "We had everything from cribs to car seats, and an older person in our group required wheelchair access."
Burch and her relatives spent some of their time with their own private naturalist guides in Yellowstone. "We werent working on our PhD or anything," Burch says, "but we were full of questions."
The family also stayed in Jackson, Wyoming, where they went on a wildlife expedition, had a chuckwagon dinner, went whitewater rafting the youngest and oldest members preferred a scenic float and the men went fly fishing while the women went on a guided hike.
"The guys got their fishing trips, I got my hiking, Mother got her driving everyone was happy," says Burch.
Planning a reunion that makes everyone happy may not be easy, "we take time to understand each groups needs and get all the details right," explains Sarah Lundgren of Off the Beaten Path Travel.
Holly Burchs note to Off the Beaten Path included these two sentences: "Trip still highlight of life experiences. Great memories!"
Contact Off the Beaten Path, 27 E. Main St., Bozeman MT 59715; 800-445-2995; www.offthebeatenpath.com.
Family life, especially for those with children at home, can be a noisy, stress-filled existence riddled with schedules, waiting, traffic and responsibilities. If you want your reunion to be the antithesis of this, rule out Las Vegas, theme parks, crowded resorts and big cities. Consider, instead, the favorite digs of belted kingfishers, 40+ inch muskies, black bear, ruffed grouse and friendly, hard-working folks with lots of spirit: the Northwoods of northwestern Wisconsin.
The Hayward Lakes area and, about 20 miles to the north, the Cable area, remain unspoiled and tranquil despite the fact that more people are learning about this nook of natural beauty. Anchored by the 850,000-acre Chequamegon National Forest, the region offers unparalleled outdoor recreation with 200 glaciated lakes and rivers and 600 miles of groomed trails, family-run resorts, fifteen golf courses, gaming, fine Northwoods dining and one heck of an autumn blast of color. Some of the lakes have 10-mph speed limits, adding to the peacefulness, while others are sanctuaries for fish and wildlife. At various times of year, the sleepy hamlets burst with activity and sports enthusiasts. Skiers arrive the last Saturday in February for the annual American Bierkenbeiner Ski Race and Cable's Chequamegon Fat Tire Festival attracts 2,500 mountain bikers a few weeks after Labor Day. Summer's Musky Festival reminds tourists that Hayward is the home of world record muskies.
An autumn reunion in the Cable/Hayward region promises cooler, crisp air amid spectacular foliage, perfect for easy to challenging hikes. (Peak color times are usually the last week in September through the first weeks in October.) Families with little ones may choose nature trails that feature interpretive stations that can be experienced in as little as minutes. Copper Falls State Park is a family favorite with well-graded trails and three waterfalls. If you'd rather drive, three self-guided, marked and mapped fall colors tours are available at the Cable Area Visitors Center. Or you can canoe the Namakagon River, part of the St. Croix National Scenic Riverway, to snap photos of wildlife and listen to the calls of a myriad of birds.
Golfers experience nirvana when they hear there are 16 golf courses within an hour's drive or less from the reunion site. Courses range from family-friendly par threes to 18-hole championship varieties such as Forest Ridges Golf Course at Lakewoods Resort, just east of Cable. The lush Chequamegon National Forest surrounds the course, so don't be surprised if you must wait for a family of white-tailed deer to cross before taking your next swing. With the area's only on-cart G.P.S. system, Forest Ridges has a complete pro shop, driving range, bar and grill and teaching center.
In its fourth generation of family operation, the Lakewoods Resort staff works overtime to create unique reunions with many activities right outside the door on 3,400-acre Lake Namakagon. The full-service marina offers water bikes, pontoon and paddleboats, canoes, kayaks and water skis. Trophy walleye, northern, bass and panfish are some of the treasures awaiting fishing fans and the lake regularly produces 40+ inch muskies. Lakewoods will arrange fishing guides for both beginners and serious anglers. It's a good thing Lakewoods rents bikes: there are over three hundred miles of mapped and marked trails in the area, extending from Hayward to Iron River, following a variety of paths from ski trails to logging roads. If your group prefers to stick close to the resort, there are indoor and outdoor pools and tennis and volleyball courts for family competitions.
Lakewoods offers homey lodge rooms, cabins and condominium units with separate bedrooms and full kitchens. Condos are homey and that's why Rich and Doris Daniels, of Burlington, Wisconsin, prefer to get their clan booked into the units. You could say the Daniels love Lakewoods, but considering it's the 39th year of reuniting at the resort, that might be an understatement. "When the kids were little, we looked for a real family resort just to vacation and, since we had 13 children, there were a lot of us," explained Doris. "Over the years we met different families at Lakewoods, who became our friends, and now these friends and our families meet up there every year." The Daniels children literally grew up loving the place and today, with grandchildren numbering 43, the tradition continues to new generations. "We are a large group and the Rasmussens (the owners) are always so accommodating," Doris laughed. The reunion is casual with picnics, golf outings, some boating and entire days spent just lolling on the beach with a family barbecue at night. The atmosphere is so laid back, that one of the Daniels' friends, who is a priest, will conduct mass right in front of the condos! Some older family members stay for two weeks while others spend a week at the woodsy resort. "Our children still get excited about going to Lakewoods," Doris shared, "and we just love it."
The Rasmussens will do as little as booking rooms or get really involved in a reunion, arranging entertainment, speakers, comedians, doing all or some meals. "Our philosophy is to sit down with the reunion coordinator, and find out how much or how little they want our involvement," explained Kathy Rasmussen. "We know every reunion, like every family, is different," she continued. "If there are lots of little kids, we'll create family activities or if the group is older, we'll do something very different like setting up a room with cards and VCR, so they can sit and visit and be very comfortable in a quiet setting." Using the resort's facilities, families can schedule golf, tennis or volleyball tournaments or races with any of the non-motorized water equipment. Special activities for kids may include tie-dyeing, horseback riding, paddle boat races, golf and tennis lessons. Rasmussen takes digital photos and posts them throughout the week for reunion members to view and order. Plan a special end-of-the-week banquet to round out one terrific reunion.
Of the 20 or more reunions Lakewoods hosts every year, many stay for a full week and staff arranges day trips and transportation, if necessary. The small but imaginative Cable Natural History Museum recently unveiled a terrific exhibit about the most dominant group of creatures on the planet insects. Anglers must visit Hayward, home of the colossal musky that doubles as the National Fresh Water Fishing Hall of Fame. There are rooms full of outboard motors, trophy fish and antique lures and everyone should have their picture taken while in the mouth of the 4 story mad musky. The "Wilderness Walk" is a combination Western Town and zoo thats fun to stroll and dont leave without taking in Fred Scheers Lumberjack Show. The lumberjacks are young athletes who compete in speed climbing, log rolling, canoe jousting, sawing and axe throwing. A stop at Tremblay's Sweet Shop, for homemade fudge and peanut brittle, is a must. Try your luck at any of the four casinos within 45 minutes of Lakewoods. Lac Courtes Oreilles Casino is just 4 miles east of Hayward.
About an hour's drive from Lakewoods, the Apostle Islands National Lakeshore in Bayfield makes for a wonderful day trip. Choose a cruise to see some or all of the 22 Apostle Islands and their much-photographed lighthouses. Eagles, loons and seagulls complete the picture. Lakewoods Resort can arrange to have a private cookout ready for you on return from Bayfield.
The O'Keefe's of St. Paul, Minnesota, prefer to stick around Lakewoods during their every-other-year reunions. "The food is excellent, boats are available and the live music on weekends is fun," laughed Elizabeth, who with her husband Robert celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary at the resort two years ago. "Some may go to one of the casinos, but mostly we talk and have meals together and catch up." The O'Keefe reunion, about 60-70 strong with kin from Arizona, Illinois, Alabama, the Dakotas, Minnesota and California converge on this northwestern Wisconsin community. "The family talks about changing venues, but we always come back to Lakewoods and it has become a wonderful tradition," said the O'Keefes.
Contact Lakewoods to work out a reunion package in the glorious Northwoods of Wisconsin. Contact 800-255-5937; www.lakewoodsresort.com.
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About the author
Journalist/Editor Jacky Runice has penned a weekly travel column for Chicago's Daily Herald since 1994 and writes about travel and dining for USAToday.com; CBS Local Chicago; and Examiner.com. She expands her repertoire at Kane, Lake and McHenry County (IL) Magazines with articles about everything from healthy living to technology. A former Chicago radio talk show host, Jacky has three grown children who have inherited her love of sampling new cultures, countries and cuisine.