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|Welcome to our family reunion
The Malone Family Reunion Choir has produced a CD that starts with an enthusiastic song called "Welcome to our Family Reunion." You'll want to consider welcoming your family with this upbeat anthem to family reunions. CDs are $15+ shipping and handling. Please call 414-263-4567 to order.
Dena Mason, Cope, Colorado, wrote this poem about the Probasco Family Reunion.
by Dena Mason
We only have a memory of yesterday
When we were the ones to run and play
A care in the world, was not to be
We loved each other, our family
Cousins playing, the best of friends
Who would have thought, it would ever end
Circle of life, spinning fast
Gone are the days of our recent past
Parents gone and now we see
We are the ones holding the key
Searching for something that can't be found,
In a memory of scrapbooks and stories bound
My heart it aches as we say good-bye
The tears begin to form in my eye
A hug from my uncle standing strong
My dad's voice, echoes in his song
Watching my aunt struggle with cancer
Like watching a rerun of my mother
Hugging my children tight as can be
Tomorrow, they will be the ones holding the key
Time just keeps slipping away
We only have a memory of yesterday
People mentioned in the poem include her mom and mom's siblings (left to right) Jean Ellis, Joann Morgan, Keith Probasco, Joyce Brown, Nadine Brophy and Mason's mom, Jan Ekberg.
These are but a few of the potential words and
tributes that can be used at reunions. Do you have others? Something
special you did or said at your reunion? Please help others by
sharing your words. E-mail us.
Toasts, tributes and reunion music
by Jeff Perso
At one time or another we all need one, were all called
upon to make one and we all rise to the podium with the same sense
of dread and excitement, perspiring, nervousness and heart palpitating
The occasion needs one, requires one. And you
are the one to deliver it.
Yes, Im talking about the toast. The tribute.
The telling anecdote. The ceremonial prayer.
Oh, for a Shakespeare! Or the guy with the long
nose: Cyrano de Bergerac penning perfect poems!
Alas, it is not to be. You are alone. The room
quiets, all eyes cast your way. You stand, mop your forehead.
You fumble in your pocket, searching for hastily scribbled, illegible
notes. Or worse, you try to extemperize, relying on an already
fading memory. You cough, clear your throat, unclamp your suddenly
uncooperative mouth ...
Thats not the way it must be.
As more and more speakers are discovering, official
reunion toasts, tributes, poems, and invocations can go a long
way toward relieving stage fright, pre-toast jitters and mumbled
Warren Wirebach, Middletown, Pennsylvania, composed
the following invocation for the Weyerbacher Family Reunion.
"Father, we thank thee for the privilege
of being together as a family. As the generations grow farther
apart, let them be brought together with the memory of the loved
ones who were once with us, but now live only in our memories.
Strengthen the bond of relationships as we face the future,
but always keep with us our ties of the past."
SuzAnne C. Cole, Houston, Texas, wrote a toast
for her 40th class reunion of Will Rogers High School in Tulsa,
Toast for an Academic Reunion.
"Today we toast our memories
the students, athletes, and friends
we once were reunited for a time,
reliving our shared past.
Everything that happened here
played its part in shaping us,
so we return to remember
the youth we were.
We also honor those who
taught and encouraged us.
We remember old friends
those with us now,
those who couldnt make it,
and those who are no longer with us.
Dear friends, lift your glasses with me
to our younger selves their activities,
their plans, their promise.
May we always remember with gratitude
their part in making us who we are today."
The official poem of the Family Reunion Institute
at Temple University in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, also serves
to describe reunion. It is written by Jo-Ann Kelly who regularly
attends reunions on her mothers Jackson/Anderson side and
her fathers Brown/Kelly side.
First, theyll recognize the ancestors and pour libations
one by one
Because, theyll recognize the importance of their Family
A call in the middle of the night, a wedding, a funeral, sometimes
A baby born, a loans come due, a graduation, anniversary
and a card that says, "I love you."
A Sunday morning breakfast, a cookout in July, the time that
Uncle Robert tried to do the Electric Slide
The family comes from out of town to join the family here, they
share some jokes, some memories, they share some smiles and
Prayer and faith intermingle, with a sermon and gospel songs:
Pass Me Not Oh Gentle Savior, Precious Lord and Pressing On...
No, not everything is perfect, not everything is right, not
everybodys coming because they have been downsized ...
But of all those who make it, and all of those who come, will
be a part of all of those who recognize theyre one
And who recognize the importance of a Family Reunion.
The Family Tree
I think that I shall never see
The finish of a family tree.
As it forever seems to grow
From roots that started long ago
Way back in ancient history times,
In foreign land and distant climes.
From them grew trunk and branching limb,
That dated back to times so dim.
One seldom knows exactly when
The parents met and married then,
Nor when the twigs began to grow
With odd named children row on row
Though verse like this is made by me,
The ends in sight as you can see.
"Tis not the same with family trees
that grow and grow through centuries!
From Fulgham-Fulghum Family Facts newsletter.
If your muse suffers writers block, June Cotner
happily has compiled Family Celebrations: Prayers, Poems, and
Toasts for Every Occasion (Andrews McMeel Publishing, Kansas
City, hardcover, $16.95). Taken from the works of both contemporary
authors and traditional favorites such as Robert Browning and
Carl Sandburg, Cotner has gathered the right words for weddings
and anniversaries, family reunions and graduations. "As If,"
whose author is unknown, exemplifies the collections offerings.
"Dance as if no one were watching
Sing as if no one were listening,
And live every day as if it were your last."
Sound advice, no matter what the occasion.
Click here for more info to purchase Family Celebrations: Prayers, Poems, and Toasts for Every Occasion
More sources for inspiration
We are often asked to provide reunion words and over time have
developed these suggestions for you to explore.
- Something favorite from the Bible, Shakespeare,
a favorite poet, author.
- There are books of quotes listed by subject
and family is a favorite one.
- Talk about the strength of your ancestors ...
the real founders of your reunion or how the family grew. Remind
the family who they are, why your family is special and encourage
them to enjoy a memorable reunion.
- Be thankful for your reunions and perhaps do
a retrospective of your family.
- Ask others for favorite appropriate readings.
Ask them to read.
- Share the wealth: assign others a thought they
can share at the reunion.
Then theres the OJays soulful Family Reunion. The OJays recognize that "at
least once a year we should have/a family reunion." Why?
Because "its so nice to see all the folks you love
together." Of course.
For a more spiritual moment, theres Thank
You For Peace, a cassette produced, written, arranged and
performed by Samuel B. Lackey. For information call 215-552-8554.
About the author.
Jeff Perso was an assistant editor of Reunions magazine.