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 Reunion themes- 3
Does anyone have a bush jacket?
by Carol C. Michels
The first Donahue Family Reunion I remember was in a park
north of New York City. I was about seven and an only child. I
was thrilled to be related to all those people, particularly the
kids. There was a long table with wonderful food piled high and
grills fired up for hamburgers.
My strongest recollection was a major juggling contest
among the men. It started with one fellow tossing an orange to
another and became a hilarious exhibition of round the circle
throw and catch, show-off spinning, pitching from behind backs
and under knees. Aunt Louise filmed the shenanigans by following
oranges instead of athletes. The on-screen result resembled an
Olympic Marmalade Marathon but has entertained us for years. And
we are still entertaining one another.
Our clan originated in the late 19th century in New York
City with the five children of Patrick and Sydney Josephine Johnstone
Donahue. All were accomplished artists, musically and otherwise.
Robert, one of the country's pioneer cinematographers, recorded
Admiral Byrd's discovery of the North Pole. Everyone else played
piano and sang. Vivid memories of my mother's generation, were
about songs and stories on Sunday afternoons in Grandma's parlor.
When we get together magic happens. One year we hired a
little Dixieland band and danced and sang ourselves silly. Five
years ago we decided to revisit our ancestors' Sunday afternoon
musical revue theme and announced a vaudeville show. An unusual
collection of talent came out of the woodwork as the highlight
of a three-day Cape Cod weekend that also celebrated the 80th
birthdays of two favorite aunts. A tent was erected, tables, chairs
and a small PA system rented and food assignments divided.
Five guys who never played together appeared with musical
instruments and within minutes were strumming and singing terrific
stuff. Three seniors from Florida recreated the Andrew Sisters'
version of Rum and Coca-Cola. Maxine, played by 6'1"
Uncle Roy, was a show-stopper. Six men ages 16 to 82 sang great
Barbershop harmonies. A young mother and her two daughters tap
danced to Tea for Two. Another put some of the gents through
a very funny version of Simon Says. Five siblings lip-synched
to modern classics; two cousins sang Honey Bun from South
Pacific; two semi-mature, conservative cousins charmed the
crowd by spoofing a Madonna song about bananas. A fifteen-year
old cousin wrote a play in which some of the kids lip-synched
songs from The Sound of Music. Three teenage boys used
a curtain, the head of one, arms of a second and legs of the third
to perform a memorable Evening with Mrs. Smedley. Even
the Master of Ceremonies amazed us with his hidden talent as a
pretty decent magician.
In all, 22 acts demonstrated various levels of talent.
Everyone, regardless of age, got into the act as performer or
observer, camera operator, cook or artist. While many were practicing
or finding costumes, cousin Cindy created clever billboard signs
for each act. Four videotapes were edited to one terrific tape
by a talented "outlaw" cousin and distributed to all
families.
Following the fun of that reunion was a formidable challenge.
The result was a Murder Mystery held in conjunction with a 50th
anniversary celebration. Seventy-five descendants came to New
England from all over the country.
A mystery play was conceived from an Agatha Christie novel.
Fifteen actors were cast with attention to personalities willing
to make fools of themselves. Again we rented a tent. Cindy masterminded
remarkable backdrops painted by willing hands. Everyone came dressed
as someone famous.
Among the good sports were a captain in a Florida sheriff's
department who shaved his mustache of 26 years to be Desiree Flambeau,
an aging actress with an unseemly past who meets an untimely end.
A grandmother needed three costume changes to play her role as
an international dress designer. Uncle Bunch finally found a bush
jacket to go with his borrowed pith helmet as Major Barry, a veddy
British retired officer.
We may not recall the name of the production or the characters,
but the warm memory of doing something so fun together will always
be clear. Our lives are in places across the country and our only
commonalty is a shared set of great-grandparents. But we are genuinely
affected by getting to know each other. Letting your hair down
and being silly is a great way to do it. Something very special
happens when kin connect.
About the author
Carol C. Michels who clearly enjoys her family reunions
is a freelance writer and associate producer for TV documentaries.
She is a regular contributor and staff editor for a monthly newsletter,
Focus on Women. She lives with her husband and family in
Wilmington, Delaware.
Looking for more party ideas?
While reunions are not among the parties they mention, authors Phyllis Cambria and Patty Sachs offer countless ideas that can easily be translated into reunion parties. Their Complete Idiot’s Guide to Throwing a Great Party starts with fundamentals and goes through details in a substantial 296 pages. In their chapter about themes, they make suggestions that take little additional imagination to weave into a reunion theme. As the range of theme ideas in this article demonstrates, there are theme ideas everywhere. Those and ways to ferret out good themes for your reunion and lots of other party ideas in this iteration of yet another Idiot’s Guide (2000, 296 pages, paperback, $16.95; Alphabooks, Macmillan, 201 W 103th St, Indianapolis IN). This book is now out of print but may be available through half.com or amazon.com used books.
Book review
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Pick a Party by Patty Sachs. (1997, 197 pages, paperback. Meadowbrook Press, 5451 Smetana Dr, Minnetonka MN 55343; $9.00)
This book incorporates trends, tips and twists for both family and class reunions. There is an emphasis on themes, cleverly cross-referenced in a magnum opus called a "theme grid." On the grid reunions are matched with theme ideas that are developed elsewhere in the book. For example, class reunion themes include decades and eras, hobbies and pastimes and event themes. Family reunion themes include sports, hobbies, regional and ethnic themes. Each theme idea is also developed in the book. Sachs includes an extensive resource section for all kinds of parties. Check out the SPECIAL OFFERS! |
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