Need help finding classmates?
"We are looking for an organization that takes on the task of finding classmates. We are in the process of putting together our 40th reunion for 2004 and need assistance. Can you recommend one?" e-mailed Juanita Hayes.
The professional management companies that organize reunions specialize in finding people ... it's part of their cost. Try www.reunions.com for something close to you. Tell them Reunions magazine sent you!
This might be the reunion where the solitary responsibility of your committee is to find a company or party planner to organize your reunion. Then, even committee members can be guests. Start by asking around for others who have hired services. It's in the best interest of the company to find as many classmates to come to your reunion as possible and their fees, usually all-inclusive, are not outrageous if you compare the cost to many other entertainment or leisure activities you attend.
Don't miss this opportunity to commit to a continuing search because some of your classmates are going to move a few more times by the time of your next reunion. Use your database and perhaps even recruit a searching fanatic in your class with the challenge to find everyone! Check an article by Bill Williams about his successful searches.
Finding professionals to plan your reunion
Kimberly Peterson wrote, "I am trying to set up my high school's ten-year reunion and I don't know where to start. I want to find the right company to do it but I am not sure I even know the right questions to ask. How can you tell good companies from bad? What can I expect a good company to do and for what price? Is there a good place look for this information?
Paula Sheagley* responds. Start with your local school district(s). Call a high school and ask them which company(ies) are reputable and stay in good communication. Professional reunion planning companies should register each reunion with schools and operate on good working terms with the local school offices/alumni associations.
The first thing you should do is start talking to your classmates
about who they work for and who they know. A lot of times we find
that someone owns a company that has something we can use or knows
someone that they can talk into donating a service or selling
it to us at cost. Possibilities include Casino Nights, magicians
that go table-to-table, a comedian during dinner, or just a fun
icebreaker game. Local libraries offer books that describe hundreds
of party games.
Ask for references from the company. Then, call
the references. Ask references to be candid about the good and
the "bad" of working with that company.
Look for a fair price. Expect the fee to include
all catering costs, rentals, entertainment, optional memory book.
Then expect approximately $20 to be added as over-head charges;
labor, research, printing, phones and postage plus a little profit.
Janice Clarkson, Midland, Texas, e-mailed that she wanted to put a small booklet together to distribute at our 1999 reunion. I need successful ideas or examples. I want to include graduation pictures along with recent photos from each classmate and their family. Help!
*Paula Sheagley, reunion expert, responds.
A very easy and inexpensive idea is to send a printed questionnaire to classmates that has an area to neatly print or type their bio and "best memories" of school days. They attach a photo with or without family. Take the sheets to a printer and ask them to make "copies" for everyone.
Attach a cover and spiral binder. It's quick, easy and fun to see everyone's handwriting. Use a quick self-mailer (to save money on envelopes). Only expect about one-third to return their forms, so plan follow-up. Also, try this trick: tell classmates they can include their business cards (camera-ready advertising) on their personal page. Free advertising, everyone loves that these days!
Also consider these ideas. Ask other reunion planners what they've done. Check other kinds of organizations that do similar projects: family reunions, churches, organizations and associations. Ask your quick printer what jobs they've done and if they've done nothing similar: call around. Someone's already doing what you want to do and probably would love to tell you all about it! Good luck!
*About the expert
Paula Sheagley wrote many class reunion articles for Reunions
magazine so we turn to her expertise when faced
with class reunion dilemmas. She is the former owner of a reunion
planning business in southern Colorado and was a charter member
and past president of the National Association of Reunion Managers.
Paula is presently the event coordinator and marketing representative
for Holy Cross Abbey, home of Benedictine Monks in Canon City,
Colorado, which she describes as "beautiful grounds with
wonderful reunion and retreat facilities built around a turn-of-the
Thank you very much. Your magazine has been very helpful in getting our reunion organized.
-Eleanor Phillips Coody, Class of 1958 Reunion Committee Coordinator, Bushwick High School, Brooklyn New York.
Should you hire a professional?
We are often asked if it is better to organize a reunion with
or without professional help. Our response suggests that the decision
should be up to each reunion because it depends upon whether or
not you have the time and energy to do a thorough job. There is
much detail and many considerations over a long enough period
of time so a serious commitment is called for.
We asked Debby Pattin, a partner in Reunions Unlimited,
Olympia, Washington, and chair of the Ethics Committee for the
National Association of Reunion Managers, to tell us why to use
a professional reunion manager.
Professional reunion managers have the experience
and offer a comprehensive set of services and expertise to make
your class reunion a success. Just think about how much time it
would take to locate alumni, organize events, prepare and mail
announcements and registrations and coordinate registrations and
confirmations. Professional managers know how to find classmates,
the most difficult task of reunion planning and provide one place
of contact for consistent and up-to-date information.
Professional mangers also pay up front costs,
maintain web sites for secure on-line registration, provide toll-free
phone numbers, e-mail and fax and credit card processing, deposit
and bill paying. Then, consider music and photography, memory
books, contacting local media, the school and alumni association,
staffing events and paying for liability insurance. Professional
managers take care of all those details and much more.
Here's the best part: there is no cost to the
committee for using a reunion manager. Managers take the hassle
out of planning a reunion and allow the committee to take the
credit and have fun.
Members of the National Association of Reunion
Managers follow strict industry standards and adhere to a code
of ethics. They have strong working relationships with hotels,
banquet facilities, caterers, DJs, vendors and suppliers. Best
of all, your reunion committee always maintains decision-making
power while working with a professional.
Like everything else, it is important to shop
around and ask for and make reference checks for any potential
manager. For information about a professional reunion manager
in your area, visit the National Association of Reunion Managers
web site www.reunions.com or call 800-654-2776.
How to reach the experts:
Debby Pattin and her partner, Carol Riley, own Reunions Unlimited,
PO Box 11203, Olympia, Washington 98508; 360-866-8842 or e-mail